The Sugar Bowl might sound like a lot of fun, being a Sugar Daddy or Sugar Boy do come with its highs and lows. You can never be too prepared, so be sure to do a lot of research and investigation before jumping right in.
Here are 7 Questions I suggest you ask yourself before taking the leap:
Why do you want to be a Sugar Daddy or Sugar Boy? Is it because you want to make some extra cash or because you are lingering for a companion? Perhaps you want the fun without the serious commitment. Maybe you know someone who is doing it and you want to try it out, giving a different kind of dating a chance.
Being clear on what you want from your Sugar Boy or Sugar Daddy will help with further relationship arrangements.
2. What Do You Want Out Of It?
What will your expectations be once you meet a potential Sugar Boy or Sugar Daddy? Would you want to see them on the regular, like every week or only once a month? Do you expect your calls and texts to be answered immediately or don’t you mind hanging around a little bit? Are you open to having more than one Sugar Boy or Daddy?
You should be clear on what outcome you are looking for. Whether it’s a travel companion or someone to go to parties with or just snuggle in at home. Make sure you know what you want and make your expectations clear from the start.
3. Are You Doing It For The Money?
If your answer to this question is ‘yes’ – then you should create a CV and send it into a recruitment agency. Being part of the Sugar Bowl isn’t to make money off of a Sugar Daddy, it’s trying a new kind of relationship. A ‘Relationship on your Terms’ that fits in with someone else’s terms of a relationship. Going into a Sugar Relationship while expecting to get financial stability without giving a little bit of yourself to someone is naive.
4. Are You Scared Of Other’s Opinions?
It’s normal to feel a bit scared about what your friends and family will say about your Sugar Bowling. That is why it’s important that you are sure of your choice to go into Sugar Dating.
There are many misconceptions about what Sugar Bowling actually is about, prostitution is definitely one of the misconceptions people have about a Sugar Boy dating a Sugar Daddy. Being in a Sugar Relationship may raise some eyebrows but it’s the perfect place where you can find the exact kind of relationship you’ve been seeking.
Are you ready for people’s questions? Will you be able to explain to them what it’s all about and why you are doing it? I’m sure you will.
5. What Standards Do You Have?
When a Sugar Daddy pays you to be a part of their life, it doesn’t mean that you are their property. You should still have standards and worth. Will you be okay if someone, that you are in a Sugar Relationship with, only sees you once a month, or wouldn’t want to be seen in public with you, or would want to be seen in public with you?
Chances are you may encounter a Sugar Daddy in search of a relationship who is already married, will you be okay with this arrangement or not?
Knowing what your expectations are and knowing what standards you are going to apply to your Sugar Daddy or Boy is important in finding your perfect Sugar Relationship Match.
6. Are You Informed?
Making your own conclusions about what Sugar Dating is, is probably not your best bet in finding out the real tea. Read posts on Gay Arrangement and other Sugar sites to find out the inside scoop. Talk to friends who are part of the Sugar Bowl community and learn from their experiences.
7. Are You Ready?
Are you ready for a thrilling ride? Sugar Dating can be a lot of fun if you stay open-minded and have your standards set. It is a relationship that fits your needs, you don’t have to be forced into one and in the end, it’s your decision whether you want to make a relationship agreement or not.
Have Fun and Enjoy the Ride.